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I am looking forward to sharing the recipe for these easiest (and most delicious ) Chocolate Chip Walnut Blondies with you today. They are a cinch to make, incredibly tasty, and gluten-free, grain-free, dairy-free, and refined sugar-free. Did I mention they are delicious? I know you guys are going to love them.
This recipe also has a heartfelt story behind its creation. One that I have not spoken about very much publicly this year, but today, as I was writing out the recipe, it felt OK to open up about it.
They say necessity is the mother of invention. Well, one day this last winter, I NEEDED to make something extra delicious and comforting. Yes, I was eating my feelings and I was fully aware that I was doing so (despite what you may have been told, emotional eating is not always a bad thing — awareness is key).
You see, my family had just experienced the very sudden and unexpected passing of my brother. This was a devastating loss to my family. My brother was fit and healthy, and we would have never imagined him passing so soon. It came as such a shock to the family, one that hit right as the new year (2017) began.
A Tribute to My Bro…
My brother William was a kind person, incredibly honest, and one of the hardest workers I’ve ever known. He was a patient teacher with a wonderful sense of humor. He was a craftsman with an intent eye for detail. Any client he worked for will tell you that he strove for perfection in the completed project. He was always willing to help out any time it was needed. He was loved and respected by not just his family, but his friends and colleagues as well.
William was the best big brother anyone could ask for. He took me camping, hiking, to the movies, the shooting range, ice skating, and so much more. He tried to get me interested in sports, but sadly, that didn’t stick…sorry, brother. <3
When I was a kid, I would often spend the night at his house where we would make all sorts of junk food and watch TV. Since I lived in a home without TV and junk food, these times were always special and memorable for me. But not just because of the food and TV, but because William was fun to be around and always made the evenings entertaining. And, it was nice to have a big brother who wanted to spend time with his little sister.
There are a few junk foods that will always hold a special place in my heart (even though I no longer eat them). Kraft Mac & Cheese, Totino’s Pizza, and homemade Rice Crispy Treats were our favorites and what we’d typically have. Though sometimes he’d cook up some ground meat and we would make baked burritos in the oven. We’d have soda or juice to wash it all down (and Kool-Aid on occasion). The Cosby Show and Cheers were our go-to TV shows. I’m not sure when I will ever be able to hear the Cheers theme song again without bursting into tears….
William was fiercely independent, loved dogs, all things outdoors, and the majestic Rocky Mountains. He also enjoyed reading historical books, watching movies, football, basketball, building houses, and so much more.
William was a part of my everyday life for 35 years. It’s hard to imagine the next 35 without him. Words can’t even describe the pain my family has felt from his death. Time heals all wounds, but that doesn’t mean we forget. We simply find a way to carry on, even when a part of our heart has been taken away.
Focusing on all the positive memories is what gets me through each day. I have so many with him that I will treasure until my time on Earth is up. I can still hear his voice in my head and smell his clothes when I close my eyes (a combination of laundry detergent and wood smoke from the wood stove that heated his home). I will forever remember the last time we spoke (Dec. 31st, 2016) and the exact words he said to me before we hung up:
William: “You going to go out partying tonight?”
Me: “Nah, dinner, some TV, and then bed by 9 most likely.”
William: “We’re a couple of party animals. I’m going to watch some basketball and then go to bed too.”
(even more laughter)
Me: “OK, well, enjoy the basketball. I’ll talk to you soon.”
I almost said I love you before I hung up the phone, but I didn’t. And now I wish I had, but that’s OK, because I know he knew it. Always, always, ALWAYS say “I love you” before you hang up the phone.
Loss, Grief, and Reflection
I’ve experienced the loss of loved ones before, but it has been nothing compared to the loss of a sibling. The grief process has been a rollercoaster, full of ups and downs, twists and turns. Each day is a bit different than before. Some days have felt almost normal and other days have felt like it just happened.
To be honest, there have been times where the loss has thrown me for a complete loop and I’ve felt completely out of control. There were times where I was downright angry, other times when I was so sad that I felt like I would never smile again, and then other times where I felt physical pain from the experience. That whole broken heart thing is real. I am a firm believer.
There has never been a time in my life that has required me to dig deep and soul search like this. It has required me to be really kind to my mind, body, and soul. It has required me to let go of my “must get everything done on my to-do list today” mentality and just let myself lie on the couch all day and watch Netflix if that is what I needed to do.
And yes, that also included allowing myself to eat my feelings if that is what would make me feel better in the moment.
I am still in the middle of the grief process, though I can say that it is a different type of grief now. I have found that grief comes in stages and each stage looks different than the one before. Each one feels different and acts differently. And this is all going to be different for each person too. Grief is unique to each of us.
This process, albeit the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with, has taught me so much about myself and about others. It’s given me a new perspective on life (like not taking your life and the life of your loved ones for granted). It’s taught me the value of being kind and patient with yourself and others. It has taught me that grief is not a one-size-fits-all event…
Most of all, it’s taught me that we never know when our time on Earth is up. Each day that we get to wake up and step out of bed is a gift. So let’s start taking action on our dreams and not wait until “someday.” “Someday” may never come.
Here’s to you, sweet brother. This recipe is for you. I so wish I could make you a plate of these blondies. I know you would love them and wash them down with an ice cold glass of milk. I miss you more than words can describe, but you will always be in my heart and will be a driving force in my life. Thank you for being such a great brother for the time that I was lucky enough to have you in my life.
I opened up on my other site more about my grief and the experience of this process. I also shared some resources that were helpful for me. You can read that full blog post here.
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PLEASE READ!!!! Quick note about “coconut cream concentrate” and “coconut butter,” since I get asked this all the time.
Whenever I refer to those two terms in my recipes, it means the product that is super finely ground coconut meat, which has a consistency similar to a nut butter. It’s not referring to coconut milk or coconut cream (the liquid beverage-type products), and it’s not referring to those vegan “butters” that often use coconut oil in them.
You cannot substitute dairy butter for coconut butter, nor can you substitute coconut oil for coconut butter.
Please read this post where I talk about coconut products in detail and clear up the common confusion with ingredient names.
Also, the texture of the cookies may vary depending on the brand(s) of coconut products you use. I have found in my years of cooking that there can be a big difference between brands of coconut products and how they work in recipes. For this recipe, I found I got the best results when I used coconut butter from Tropical Traditions and almond flour from my local health food store. If you find that your dough is too dry, just add a tablespoon or two of coconut milk (or milk of your choice) to the mix until you get the right consistency.
William's Chocolate Chip Blondie Recipe + A Very Personal Tribute :: Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Dairy-Free, Refined Sugar-Free
A delicious recipe with a heartfelt story behind it. These easy and delicious Chocolate Chip Walnut Blondies were created in memory of my late brother, William. They are a cinch to make, incredibly tasty, and gluten-free, grain-free, dairy-free, and refined sugar-free.
- 2 cups coconut butter, warmed until liquid
- 2 eggs
- 2 tsp vanilla extract
- 1/2 cup erythritol (or granulated sweetener of your choice)
- 1/8 tsp liquid stevia
- 3 tbsp almond flour
- 5 tbsp grass-fed gelatin powder
- 3/4 cup Lily's chocolate chips
- 3/4 cup walnuts or pecans, chopped (optional but delicious!)
- Coconut oil, butter, avocado oil, etc. for greasing pan
- Preheat oven to 350 F.
- Grease a 9x9 square baking dish (or similar size) with coconut oil, butter, or your favorite fat.
- Warm your coconut butter over low heat until it is a thick liquid consistency. You want it thin, but not hot. If you live in a warm climate, you may not need to do this step if your coconut butter is already really soft at room temperature.
- Place coconut butter in a mixing bowl and then add the eggs, vanilla, erythritol, stevia, and almond flour. Mix until combined.
- With the mixer running, sprinkle the gelatin in until well combined (no need to liquefy it before adding -- dry is fine). The batter will be thick and sticky.
- Turn off the mixer and fold in your chocolate chips and chopped walnuts.
- Pour into your greased baking dish and spread around until evenly distributed.
- Bake at 350 F for 30-40 minutes or until golden brown on top and a toothpick comes out mostly clean.
- Remove from heat and let cool completely before cutting. You can eat them warm, but they will be very soft and will fall apart (but they are SO good this way!).
- Store in an airtight container in your fridge for up to a week. To extend freshness, wrap each bar individually and freeze for up to 6 months.
Nutrition Information:Yield: 9 Serving Size: 1
Amount Per Serving: Calories: 129Total Fat: 8gSaturated Fat: 5gTrans Fat: 0gUnsaturated Fat: 2gCholesterol: 48mgSodium: 45mgCarbohydrates: 8gFiber: 0gSugar: 7gProtein: 6g
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I understand your loss. Lost my younger sister last year. Knocked me back health wise. Caused adrenal fatigue. You are right in that grief comes in stages. Some days it will hit me hard out of the blue, but I promised Jen I would laugh everyday . It has taken me over a year to get back on track health wise. My sister had such a great love of life. I feel I honor her by trying to live my life savoring each day and loving my family even more and not letting the little things get in the way. Taking care of my health is now a big priority in my life. I may not extend my life longer, but what life I have left I want to enjoy to the fullest with those that I love. Quality of life means more now than ever. My prayers to you.
Hi Ronnette! Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. I enjoyed reading the story about your sister. She sounds like a wonderful woman and I am so sorry for your loss. I love your mission to honor her by laughing every day and savoring your time with loved ones. These are two excellent things to remember and I am going to carry those with me. Thank you again and much love to you! <3
I’m so sorry about your loss. On Good Friday, early in the morning, my 24 year old nephew was killed driving his motorcycle. It was a horrible shock to all of us. It threw my sister into such a pit of grief and despair that it was almost two weeks before I heard her laugh again. During that period of intense grief (still hard to believe he’s gone and he leaves behind two little boys, 7 and 5), she told me that she didn’t know what she would do if she lost me, that she would be inconsolable. I would feel the same if I lost her. There are six of us, I’m the oldest, but this sister who is 22 months younger than me is one of my closest friends and confidants. As you know, the passage of time helps. The blondies sound wonderful and I’ve been asked to make a gluten-free treat for a friend’s upcoming 60th birthday party and I think I’ll make these. Thank you for sharing with us, Jessica. Please know that you (and your whole family) are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hi sweet friend! Thank you for stopping by and reading. I didn’t know about your nephew! I am so, so, so sorry for your loss! <3 I really appreciate your support during this time and I hope you will reach out to me if you need anything. Hope you guys also enjoy the blondies. They are SO good. I might have to go make some now. 😉 xoxoxo
Jessica, I read your blog from beginning to end and I just sobbed. It truly is a beautiful tribute to your brother. I am so sorry for your pain.
Thank you for reading Lori! I really appreciate it and your kind words! <3
Thank you for sharing your story. Please know that I am praying for you and that God does love you and your big brother!
Awww, thank you, Camille! I so appreciate your kind words and you taking the time to read! <3