Last week, I gathered my courage and got personal. I shared with all of you that I was simplifying my life, facing adrenal fatigue, and taking a stand for my thyroid. That post took some guts. I’m not one to talk about these types of personal issues with the public. Hell, I barely talk about them with my family and friends. For so long, I’ve just kept the fact that I feel somewhat run down and not “normal” hidden. I’m not sick enough to be debilitated, nor are my symptoms enough to make daily functioning difficult. For that, I am truly thankful. However, most days, I don’t feel like I am supposed to. Not that I know what a “normal” 31 year old woman should feel like, but I don’t think this is it.
So, the question that I know some people are wondering is why start now? I’ve been dealing with this for awhile now, I’m not super sick, I can still hold down a job, I have energy to exercise, so surely it isn’t that bad?
Long story short?
Babies.
I’d like to have one of these some day … 
Babies are the reason that I have finally decided to hop off the passiveness train and onto the proactiveness train. And by babies, I mean the baby (or babies) that I hope to have some day.
You see, I had a sobering realization about two weeks ago.
It finally sunk in that statistically, women who suffer from thyroid issues have a much more difficult time conceiving than those whose systems are functioning properly. I’ve known this for years. I’ve been told this by doctors for years.
But, it didn’t sink in until just recently.
And when it did, I started crying.
You see, my plan (because everyone knows that I love to make plans) was to start a family when we turned 30. Well, that didn’t happen for a multitude of reasons. Now, it has been pushed out another few years (for yet another multitude of reasons). So, not only am I going to have age to deal with when we get to the point where we’re ready to start trying, but I’m also going to have thyroid issues as well. What if we get to that point and we’re unable to conceive? What if my lack of proactiveness leads us to be unable to start a family. Both my husband and I really, really want kids and I can’t imagine how devastated we would be if that was not an option.
Now, I realize that I could get everything healed and functioning properly (or at least much better) and we could still have problems. I get that. I also know some women with thyroid issues who have been blessed with happy, healthy babies. I get that too.
But, I would absolutely not forgive myself if I’m in my late 30s and unable to conceive, and I realized that if I had been more proactive about my health, we might have had better luck.
Nope.
Not going to let that happen.
We only have one life to live, so we better make the most of it.
So, that’s why I’m getting serious now.
Because I want to give sweet hubby and me the best chance possible to start a healthy family. And Lord knows, by the time that time rolls around, we’re really, really, really, really going to want kids!
The reasons are many for why I am finally to a place where I can start focusing on my health. But, if I had to prioritize my reasons, it would be (1) babies, (2) I’m sick and tired of feeling sick and tired, and (3) I am in a place, mentally, where I can take this on without losing my mind.
So, let’s get this party started, shall we?
I’m already a few days into my nutritional therapist’s (Lydia from Divine Health) blood sugar control challenge. It’s definitely been a challenge. I have been going hardcore. And I’m feeling a little better. It’s amazing how making small changes can yield noticeable results. Gives us hope that true healing is possible!
Tell me, how are you feeling? What issues are you dealing with right now? Leave me a comment below and let’s discuss. I think we all have so much to learn from each other and each and every comment offers a learning opportunity for all women who are facing similar issues!
Health, happiness, and love.
~Jessica ♥
Delicious Obsessions was founded by Jessica Espinoza in 2010. Jessica is passionate about real food, natural living, and more. She helps people see how to eat nourishing food, without breaking the bank. Her motto is "baby steps" -- making small, lasting changes, one at a time, is the best way to ensure long-term success. This website contains "affiliate links" where appropriate, on which, I may earn a small commission or referral fee on your purchase. This has no effect on your price. The monies earned help maintain and support this website's hosting, maintenance, and the development of free content. The content shared on this site is for informational and educational purposes only. Statements/products discussed have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) and are not intended to diagnose, cure, treat, or prevent any disease or illness. Please consult your own health care practitioner before making changes to your current diet or before beginning any herbal or vitamin supplement regimen or exercise program.
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Hi Corey – I’ve never had kineseology done, but I know many people who swear by it. I would like to have to done sometime. I am so happy to hear about your recovery. It really is sad where our medical community is nowadays. It seems like for all they advanced education they receive, the less smart they are. It really is sad that more of them don’t take diet and nutrition into consideration when treating their patients. And, most of the ones that do tow the party line of low-fat, etc. NDs are great! If I was able to, I would go to an ND over an MD, but that is just not an option at this time. I am, however, hopeful that the new MD I’m seeing is going to be great! Thanks for stopping by!
Jessica, So excited for you that you are taking control of your health. More incentive for you is that the changes you are making now will also make you less likely to have ovarian cysts which would also make it difficult to concieve. Who knew ovarian custs would be diet related? So true though and I can testifly because I got rid of mine by improving my diet. YAY! (no more pelvic and back pain) Plus you will be all the more ready to raise a healthy family on nourishing foods. LOVE that you are working with a health coach. Great way to go. Congrats and best wishes.
Hi Mary – Thank you for your kind words! I think every illness comes down to diet, huh? Funny, I have been eating a real/traditional foods diet for a really long time. Actually, for most of my life, if you don’t count the hiatus during my college years.
But, sometimes you just need a little extra help. Just eating real food is not often enough to address specific issues. Especially, when you’re dealing with food allergies, which I think is part of my problem. I’ve never addressed my food allergies, because I’ve never wanted to admit that I need to give some of my favorite foods up! 
But, we must do what we must do! Thanks again for stopping by!
Jessica,
I can relate to the thyroid problems and PCOS, it can make concieving a child difficult. After 13 years of treatments and procedures we were finally blessed with a little girl. I wish you and your husband the best as you start this journey.
Thank you, Rosalind, for your nice words! I am happy to hear that you finally received your bundle of joy!
I am trying my best to deal with diabetes. I stopped being diligent about it about 1.5 years ago, and am starting to try to get back to controlling it better. Its a constant struggle. every day. I know that getting my health under control is possible, as I am sure yours is too. Best of luck!
Jessica – Thank you for stopping by and commenting! It is a struggle and can be very challenging, but I know we can do it. I read so many stories of healing online that it really seems like anything is possible! Best of luck to you on your journey as well!
Yes, definitely get your health under control before trying to conceive! We tried for a couple years before I realized that I had a thyroid problem. I just didn’t know that it was Hashi’s. So, when I did conceive, we were sooooo excited, and I begged the Lord to let me keep it (her). Well, we had a beautiful, bright, full-of-personality baby girl! She was everything that I wanted in a daughter. But, she was born with a heart defect. We celebrated her first birthday before her repair surgery. That surgery was a fail, and eight months later she passed to Heaven at 20 months of age. Although I wouldn’t trade having had her for the world, it was still devastating. All the stress compounded my health issues, which I now know more about and have been working on. Although we are older, I still believe that it’s possible to have a healthy baby in our 40′s, Lord willing. So, keep working on your health!
Hi Stephanie – Thank you for sharing your story and I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Good luck on your continued health journey and I pray that there is a happy, healthy baby waiting for you in the future! The best gift we can give ourselves is the gift of health!